Only you can decide the discomfort level of pushing your emotions enough to cause good pain and, therefore, progress and decide what is going to cause permanent injury to your male psychic. It simply boils down to this. Talking with your children about sex has a lot to do with your ability to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. In many situations, success comes from understanding how to turn present emotional pain into future family gains.
Let me explain. Pain over long periods can not only dull the body, but the mind and spirit also. This is exactly the quiet uneasiness hiding deep beneath the surface of your heart, while you let your children wander aimlessly in the land of sexual confusion in today’s sexually saturated world. This, my friend, is bad emotional pain.
Just like playing through the pain, likewise, we need to talk through the discomfort. It will be an investment in your family’s future that money cannot buy. In due course, it will likely yield healthy, happy, and self-reliant children.
Raunchy sex talk always gets a bad reputation. Most think it belongs on those 900 number phone calls and not in serious relationships. But their reason for not using sex talk may come from a position of misinformation, lack of confidence, or personal beliefs that have been hammered into them since youth. Used in the right circumstances, raunchy sex talk can actually boost confidence, strengthen the bond between partners, and take sex to a whole new level of passion.
In most relationships, the discourse may appear to be a bit dirty, but in actuality it’s quite natural. Most talk about what they like during sex and get into specifics while in the bedroom, but they wouldn’t consider talking like that on the couch or out in public, like in a bar or grocery store. We’re not suggesting that raunchy talk should become a public performance. There’s always room for discretion when it comes to our personal sex lives. We simply believe that moving the dirty talk into a public venue can add spice to the conversation, thrill, and get one’s adrenaline pumping so the soon-to-follow sexual encounter will be multiple times better than without.
So what is raunchy sex talk? It could be telling your partner the intimate details about your fantasies involving them, like a tub of Jell-o, and a tongue that never quits. It generally revolves around sex and has the details one tends to think only in their imagination. We don’t typically share these types of thoughts with anyone. This is the reason raunchy sex talk can be so beneficial to a healthy relationship.
It’s showing your partner a side of you that no one else gets to experience. They know they have you all to themselves when you share how much you dreamed of them that day at work. Men and women love to know they’re being thought of by their lover when they are not together. It’s reassuring and comforting. With sexual fantasies playing out, it’s passionate and romantic too.
Those who have never talked dirty to their partner should give it a chance. The talk doesn’t have to be about anything other than what they feel, think about, and want to do with their partner. Imagine telling them how your fantasy might play out. You picture them in a swimsuit, coming out of the water with their hair glistening. You’re on the deck sipping a mixed drink and soaking in some sun. They walk up to you and simply undress, and then you recount the rest of the fantasy to them using very detailed language. To really get into raunchy sex talk you have to embrace the details.
Dirty talks during sex can actually help in arousing the mood during intercourse. Expert therapists have now found that dirty talks during sex can actually enhance love making. Many couples nowadays use this as a technique in not only attaining sexual pleasure and for easy orgasm but things can get hotter and more thrilling in a bedroom.
Before sex, one can also use this method to kick start love-making. The very dirty words or sexy talks can attract your partner without actually or verbally calling for sex. It can effectively activate the sexual desire or the sexual parts of your body before being touched. It acts as an appetizer for sex just like having a cup of soup before a grand dinner. On the mental prospect, sexy talks can demolish the fear in one’s mind and allow them to get one step higher. Similarly it can help you in stopping your shyness and hesitation, have an open mind and be honest to yourself.
What actually is dirty talking?
Talking dirty does not mean that you force yourself into taking dirty. Do not think creative here. It only advices you to be yourself during sex. Every human being has a dirty side inside him / her. It only depends on how easy going you are. You have to be yourself and talk your mind out. Do not stammer between your words for you have nothing to hide. A frank mind can not only interest your lady but also lighten your heart.
Effective use of dirty talks
Dirty talks during sex can be used in complimenting your lady. This, as mentioned earlier, would definitely turn on a girl physically. Try to appreciate her private parts in the sexiest way possible. Make her realize that you can be more and more naughty if she co-operates and enjoys.
As you practice these techniques, you will realize that most girls like naught boys and dirty talks. It goes without saying that such dirty talks during sex can compliment your love making.